E-Motivator Malaysia

Assalamualaikum dan Salam Sejahtera :)

Wah lambat betul hari ini saya update blog ini. Macam mana nak buat, saya tak melekat kat rumah sepanjang hari. Tapi gagahkan diri menulis sesuatu untuk anda di blog ini. Hari ini tiada tips dan artikel, tapi saya nak perkenalkan anda dengan MOTIVATOR yang saya kenali di arena siber ini. Dan mereka yang saya suka baca tulisannya. :)

Antara yang saya maksudkan ialah :
1. Shueqry : http://shueqry.blogspot.com
Tentu anda kenal beliau. Saya amat meminati tulisan beliau, dan saya minat akan personaliti beliau. Amat tenang, itu yang saya dapat kesan, sepanjang saya kenal beliau. Shueqry banyak menulis mengenai minda, LOA, dan NLP. Nak tahu apa tu? Boleh ke blog beliau. Beberapa hari ini, beliau mungkin ada kerja, blog tiada post baru. Tapi! Bahan2 yang sedia ada juga dah banyak membantu sebenarnya :)

2. Blog Sis Linn Comel : http://www.linncomel.com
Sis Linn COmel pula, menulis berkaitan dengan minda separa sedar, motivasi, dan minggu ini sedang menulsi tentang LOA. APa itu LOA? Boleh ke blog beliau juga :)

3. Blog Sis Melur : http://born2bjutawan.blogspot.com
Sis Melur merupakan senior saya. Kami belajar di pusat matrikulasi yang sama, cuma tahun yang berlainan lah! Kami kenal pun. di forum Bicara Jutawan ( www.bicarajutawan.com )

4. Blog Zul Smartusaha : http://blog.smartusaha.com
Tentu sekali anda kenal beliau! Penulisan beliau amat berkesan dan mantap. Setiap hari saya ke sana. Walaupun tak selalu post komen, saya tetap akan baca :)

5. Blog Irfan Khairi : www.irfankhairi.com
Ini blog idola saya. Saya belajar dari sekecil-kecil perkara hingga sebesar-besarnya di sana :)

Selamat melawat blog mereka. Ouh ya, terlupa pula saya! Saya dalam proses menulis satu artikel yang panjang dan bersiri, mungkin melibatkan seminggu lebih. Dan akan di paparkan di sini. Di harapkan anda stay tune, untuk bacaan itu. Sebelum itu, saya ucapkan berbanyak banyak terima kasih kepada Abg Shueqry, sebab beliau banyak membantu saya mengedit artikel terbabit. Thanks a lot!

Sampai jumpa lagi. Sayonara.

Salam Maju Jaya

p.s : Nama-nama yang saya tulis adalah yang paling kerap sy kunjungi. InsyaALLAH lain kali saya update yang lain lagi:)

p.s.s : Terima kasih kepada En Mohd Rozani Pawan CHek, penulis buku Kuasa MInda Separa Sedar atas sokongan anda kepada blog ini. Semoga anda juga terus melakar kejayaan! :) Saya peminat penulisan anda. Untuk anda semua, saya jemput anda ke blog beliau di sini : http://kuasamindaseparasedar.blogspot.com

'Kejayaan Adalah Hak Milik Anda'

Ikhlas,
Dik Mal

Bagaimana Menghadapi Permasalahan Kehidupan

Salam semua, salam sejahtera, salam luar biasa. Pada kala saya menaip artikel ini, saya sedang mendengarkan alunan lagu zapin budi yang di nyanyikan Siti Nurhaliza semasa konsert beliau di Royal Albert Hall London. Saya sukakan alunan zapin Johor. Asyik, geleng2 kepala bak kata Abg Kumbang! :)

Sepanjang minggu lepas, dan juga sepanjang minggu ini saya di asak dengan kerja yang bertimbun-timbun, tetapi saya tetap mahu menulis untuk anda. Walaupun kadang kala terlewat seperti hari ini. Untuk memudahkan anda membaca artikel-artikel ini, tanpa perlu berulang alik untuk memastikan adanya post terbaru, anda bolehlah, subscribe pada blog ini :) terima kasih.

Saya sudah mengalaminya

"Tiada sesiapa pun yang bertanggunjawab kepada diri anda. Tidak ayah, tidak mak, tidak abang kakak mahupun adik, tidak masyarakat dan tidak sekali saya. Anda sendiri bertanggungjawab pada diri anda" -Dik Mal-

Ya artikel hari ini berkenaan dengan pengalaman saya sendiri. Pengalaman yang saya sudah tempuhi. Tapi bukan semua! Segelintir sahaja. Sekelumit kecil sahaja.

Setelah saya menerima pertanyaan demi pertanyaan tentang bagaimana akhirnya saya menulis mengenai motivasi dan pembangunan diri, maka inilah sedikit kisahnya....

Sehingga penghujung tahun 2006, saya masih memikirkan mengapa saya masih tidak dapat, menghasilkan sesuautu yang amat berharga dan memuaskan hati saya sekurang-kurangnya. Kenapa saya tidak mampu menterjemahkan impian dan angan-angan saya, dan kenapa tidak mampu mengapainya? Mengapa saya masih di situ, tidak berganjak dan tidak menjadi lebih baik?Kenapa saya malas dan menjalani kehidupan yang malas, sedih, suram dan tidak bermakna?

Saya mencuba berbagai kerja tetapi masih tidak mendapat hasil yang memuaskan. Kontrak kerja saya di salah satu syarikat Insurans gergasi juga berakhir. Saya cuba cari bermacam-macam kerja, termasuk yang saya fikirkan bersesuaian dengan diri saya. Saya mengikat kontrak sebagai Guru selama 2 bulan. Dan pada saat itu juga, keputusan pelajaran saya mulai goyah. Dan saya terus buntu...

Tapi hati tetap berpegang bahawa, setiap yang berlaku itu ada hikmahnya. Saya tetap berpegang dan percaya bahawa jika saya susah, ada orang yang lebih susah dari saya. Malahan sekurang-kurangnya saya tidak merempat dan masih ada tempat berteduh. Saya tetap meneruskan pembacaan motivasi. Berkoyan koyan kata-kata azimat sudah ditelan. Kenapa?

Akhirnya telah membaca beberapa buku motivasi beberapa kali, bergilir-gilir...........................saya tetap di situ. Tetap bertemankan keresahan kenapa lah hidup ku sebegini rupa. Tidak berjaya mencipta sesuatu kejayaan yang memuaskan hati. Tidak sama sekali!

Hari ini adalah permulaan kejayaan anda!

Ringkasnya, jika anda teliti dan jika anda baca artikel yang saya tulis semalam, inilah kesimpulannya, saya cuma memfokuskan kepada persoalan KENAPA, dan bukan BAGAIMANA.

Seumpama juga saya nak berterusan mengenangkan kenapa perkara itu berlaku sebegitu rupa. Dan bukannya cuba mengatasinya. Saya rela memerah otak dan bersedih-sedihan daripada memikirkan bagaimana untuk mendapatkan satu kejayaan.

Saya fokus kepada :

1. Kenapa aku tak dapat kejayaan?Aku dah puas berusaha.

2. Kenapa CGPA aku menurun?

Dan sekiranya anda sudah baca post pada hari JUmaat lepas, saya telah menulis supaya anda memfokuskan kepada BAGAIMANA.

BAGAIMANA,

1. Saya dapat mencipta kejayaan. Jika saya gagal lagi, bagaimana perlu saya menerimanya sebagai sesuatu yang subjektif dan positif?

2. Bagaimana aku dapat membaiki CGPA aku?Mungkin dengan lebih fokus, dan skor lebih dalam carry mark?

Dan jika anda perasan, saya lebih fokus kepada masalah tersebut. Di mana semasa saya bermain dengan perasaan saya, seringkali saya berimaginasi diri saya ditimpa pelbagai kesusahan. Patutlah kemudiannya, keadaan juga semakin teruk!

Dan jika sekiranya saya boleh berimaginasi tentang masalah, kenapa tidak saya berimaginasi tentang penyelesaiannya? Kenapa tidak saya berimaginasi yang saya mendapat kerja yang memuaskan hari saya, saya mendapat anugerah dekan, dan lain-lain?

Cuba renung-renungkan...

Al-Kisahnya

1. Setiap kejayaan yang anda kecapi, sebenarnya boleh mencetuskan keinginan untuk mengapai kejayaan yang lebih baik dan lebih bermakna. Jika hari ini anda adalah kerani, impikan untuk menjadi CEO. Tak ada salahnya!

2. Anda boleh mencapai apa yang anda imaginasikan. Anda ada kebolehan untuk menggambarkan tiap kejayaan anda. Dan ketahuilah kebolehan anda adalah lebih hebat dari mana-mana cabaran yang perlu anda tempuh. You got the power!

3. Akhirnya, 'Kejayaan Adalah Hak Milik Anda'

Renung-renungkan. Jika saya mampu mengatasi masalah-masalah saya dan menulis pada hari ini. Kenapa tidak anda? Saya juga seperti anda, bermula dengan kosong, ada dua mata, dua telinga, satu hidung juga. Bukannya saya ada dua hidung! Jadi, jika saya boleh, anda juga boleh!

Salam Maju Jaya

'Kejayaan Adalah Hak Milik Anda'

Kisah Tipah Dan Trafik Jem

" If you can imagine it, you can achieve it. If you can dream it, you can become it." William Arthur Ward

"Anda adalah apa yang anda fokuskan" Dik Mal

KISAH BENAR

Saya ada seorang kawan. Kawan saya, namanya Tipah. Tipah adalah seorang gadis yang riang. Beliau seorang yang agresif, bertindak cepat, tapi kadang kala kelam kabut. Ouh, saya sudah mengenali beliau lebih 2 tahun. Dan saya memahami dirinya.

Kisahnya begini. Pada peperiksaan hujung semester pertama, yakni dua tahun yang lepas, Tipah sering kali lambat sampai ke dewan peperiksaan. Jenuh juga saya tertinjau-tinjau dari dalam dewan peperiksaan. Bila peperiksaan dah bermula 20 minit, baru beliau sampai dengan tergesa-gesa.

Selepas habis peperiksaan, saya tanya dia, 'kenapa lambat?' Jawabnya, ' Jalan jem!'. Dan dia sebenarnya tak nak lambat. Sungguh dia tak nak lambat! Tentulah, kan peperiksaan final! Dan saya nasihatkan beliau supaya tidak lambat lagi. Saya 'assume' yang dia sebenaenya TERlewat. Bukan sengaja lewat.

Anda agak, apa yang terjadi?Beliau tetap lewat, setiap kali peperiksaan final. Setiap semester mesti tersangkut dalam trafik jem. Maklum sajalah, jalan di Kuala Lumpur, lepas je 7.00 pagi memang sesak! Dan macam dulu juga, beliau bagi alasan, beliau TERlewat, dan TAK NAK lewat.

Dan begitulah keadaan seterusnya.............

Sehinggalah pada semester ini. Saya mula sedari sesuatu dan menganalisa sesuatu.

Pada keesokan harinya, kira-kira 45 minit lagi sebelum peperiksaan bermula. Saya dah tercatuk di depan pintu dewan. Namun, beliau masih tak sampai lagi. Saya SMS kepadanya. Dan tak lama selepas itu, saya dapat 'reply msg ' darinya. Katanya, ' Jalan JEM! Kereta yang abang bawak sangkut kat JEM!Rosak enjin panas!MAcam mana ni???Kenapa la benda macam ni jadi masa nak pergi exam? Kenapa la kereta ni nak rosak????? KEnapa???'

Ouh! Tentu anda perasan, perkataan KENAPA yang terpacul dalam ayat itu. Tapi kerana saya faham sesuatu, maka saya balas mesej beliau kembali : ' BAGAIMANA TIpah nak ke UTM?'. Tak lama lepas tu, beliau balas, : 'TAK TAHU!'

Beliau kehabisan idea. Tak idea langsung! Mujurlah saya bagi beberapa cadangan, dan akhirnya beliau sampai juga tepat-tepat pada masa peperiksaan nak bermula.

APA YANG TERJADI SEBENARNYA?

Tentu anda 'konfius', apa yang terjadi sebenarnya? Kedengaran macam cerita orang yang stress sebab tersangkut dalam kesesakan lalu lintas pada pagi beliau kena pergi peperiksaan akhir semester. Kan?

Sebenarnya, ada beberapa perkara yang saya ingin ketengahkan di sbelik cerita yang benar-benar berlaku pada saya.

1. Dalam kehidupan, kita mempunyai tabiat, di mana kita suka dan sering kali fokus kepada KENAPA, setiap kali kita berdepan masalah. Contoh dalam kes tadi, Kenapa jalan jem. Kenapa kereta rosak. Kenapa itu, kenapa ini?

Dan kita jarang fokus : BAGAIMANA?

Tips dari saya : Jangan duduk dalam masalah, keluar dan cari penyelesaiannya. Persoalan BAGAIMANA akan membantu anda.

2. Juga kita sering melatih minda kita untuk.fokus kepada masalah. Dalam kes ini, sekali lagi, Tipah fokus kepada kenapa jalan jem, kenapa kereta rosak. Padahal, kita semua memang sedia maklum jalan di Kuala Lumpur memang akan jem pagi-pagi hari.

Dan sebenarnya, itu tidak menyelesaikan masalah anda! Tapi, persoalan BAGAIMANA akan melakukannya. :)

Minda mudah tertarik pada apa yang kita fokuskan. Jadi, jika anda berdepan masalah, fokuskan penyelesaiannya. Selagi anda fokus pada masalah, selagi itulah, masalah akan datang mencurah-curah.

Jadi, mulailah fokus kepada penyelesaiannya.

Salam Maju Jaya.

Tentu Anda Tak Tahu - Tahukah Anda?

TAHUKAH ANDA, anda mempunyai kebolehan dan kuasa yang anda sendiri tak sedar akan kewujudannya.

TAHUKAH ANDA, anda dilahirkan dengan kuasa ini tetapi anda tidak pernah belajar untuk menguasainya.

TAHUKAH ANDA, anda ada kuasa MAHA HEBAT, tetapi sayangnya anda tidak pernah menggunakannya!

Ah, tentu sekali ada di antara anda yang akan berkata, " Ah! Kuasa apa? b agitaulah cepat! Dah tertunggu-tunggu nanti. Bebel aje! :p'

Baiklah, maka TAHUKAH ANDA, bahawa mulai hari ini, anda akan saya pandu, untuk menyelongkar kehebatan kuasa anda? Ya, saya akan tunjukkan anda, cara untuk menguasai kuasa ini. Tentu saja anda beruntung!

Tapi sebelum itu, untuk memastikan anda memperolehinya, subscrivelah ke blog ini. Mana ahu satu hari anda terlupa untuk ke mari, tentunya anda ketinggalan! MUdah saja, isikan ruangan di sebelah kanan atas blog ini. Nah, anda sudah menjadi sebahagian daripada kami :)

Kuasa Minda Anda

TENTU ANDA TIDAK TAHU, manusia biasa seperti anda, saya dan mereka yang lain, cuma menggunakan 10% daripada minda kita.

TENTU ANDA BARU SEDAR, 90% yang lain tidak pernah anda gunakan secara maksimum.

TENTU ANDA WAS-WAS, bolehkah anda guna minda anda lebih dari itu, tak jadi gila ke??

Dan saya akan kata : Anda boleh memaksimakan otak dan minda anda, lebih dari 10% dan anda tak akan jadi gila!

Saya berpegang pada ungkapan ini,

"Tiada orang yang 100% sempurna, tetapi ada orang yang akan menghampiri kesempuranaan" -Dik Mal-

"Tiada orang yang akan dapat memaksimumkan penggunaan otaknya sehingga 100% tapi mungkin ada orang yang akan guna 99.9% dan kemudiannya muncul sebagai orang yang berjaya " -Dik Mal-

Minda Sedar dan Minda Separa Sedar Anda.

Ya!Kuasa itulah yang saya maksudkan. Tak lain tak bukan, minda sedar ( CM ) dan separa sedar anda (SCM). Minda, akal anda adalah anugerah terhebat yang dikurniakan kepada anda. Setuju?

Maka, itu juga yang membezakan manusia dan binatang. Jadi, fikirkan, jika anda tidak menggunakan minda, apakah kedudukan anda? Ouh sudah pasti anda faham maksud saya..

Sepanjang hidup kita, kita di ajar dan belajar untuk makan, kita di ajar dan belajar untuk bercakap, kita diajar dan belajar untuk berjalan, membaca, menulis, mengira dan macam-macam lagi. Tapi tak siapa mengajar anda, bagaimana caranya untuk mengawal minda anda, dan memaksimumkan pengunaan minda anda. Setuju?

Oleh itu, saya mengambil peranan ini untuk berkongsi, dalam masa yang sama saya sendiri belajar, bagaimana untuk mengawal minda, memaksimumkan pengunaan minda anda, bagaimana seterusnya mengawal stress, lebih bertanggungjawab kepada diri sendiri, bagaimana membina hubungan yang mantap, menambah keyakinan, bergembira dengan kesihatan yang baik, dan bermacam-macam lagi. Sedaya saya.

Rahsia Terbongkar

Anda tentu kata, 'Ouh, dah panjang dah tulis, tapi aku masih tak tau rahsianya!'

Ops! Anda tidak fokus. Kerana saya sebenarnya sudah merungkaikan rahsia ini!Semuanya mengenai minda anda. Renung-renungkan.

Jika anda masih tidak faham, boleh email saya : e.norakmal@gmail.com

Salam Maju Jaya untuk semua!

'Kejayaan Adalah Hak Milik Anda'

p.s : Bagi sesetengah orang yang melihat status gtalk saya semalam, tentu ingin mengetahui apakah kerja gila yang bakal saya umumkan hari ini. Baiklah, saya telah mencabar diri sendiri! Cabaran apa? Bukan cabaran 40 hari. Cabaran baru. Dan jika anda juga mahu menyertai saya, boleh ke sini untuk maklumat lanjut : Pelancaran Kerja Luar Biasa

Berbuat Baik Tak Perlu Balasan

Assalamualaikum dan Selamat Sejahtera

Salam Kejayaan untuk semua!

Apa khabar semua pembaca? Sejak semalam, saya mula mendapat respon-respon positif dari para pembaca dan sahabat-sahabat. Terima kasih banyak-banyak saya ucapkan.

Baiklah pada hari ini, saya nak berkongsi satu pepatah orang dulu-dulu. Tentu anda pernah dengar ayat ini bukan?

Buat baik di balas baik, buat jahat dibalas jahat.

Buat baik berpada-pada, buat jahat jangan sekali.

Apa yang sebenarnya anda dapat fahami dari pepatah ini?Pastinya, kebanyakan jawapan anda akan berbuyi :

' Eh tentulah aku tau, kalau aku buat baik, nanti orang lain buat baik pada aku!'

' Orang jahat memang akan di balas jahat, paling tak pun nanti, jatuh longkang ke...padan muka orang jahat.'

' Buat baik memang bagus, dapat kebaikan, pahala, buat jahat? Susahlah hidup nanti..'

Saya pula akan berkata : Berbuatlah baik pada mereka yang memerlukan, buat baik tak perlu minta balasan, balasan akan diberikan di akhirat kelak. Buat jahat perlu dihindar. Bagi yang beragama Islam, kita sepatutnya mengamalkan Amar Makruf Nahi Mungkar. Melakukan suruhanNya dan meninggalkan laranganNya.

Semoga anda semua selalu berbuat baik tanpa memikirkan balasan, sebab kalau asyik minta balasan, tentunya timbul ketidakikhlasan di hati bukan? :) Tepuk dada tanya selera.

Sebenarnya, tujuan saya menulis mengenai pepatah ini adalah untuk membawa anda untuk mengenali seseorang ini. Saya kenali seseorang ini dengan panggilan Adik Qistina. Adik Qistina juga mempunyai website sendiri, http://www.qistina.org

Jika anda masih belum mengetahui kisah disebaliknya, maka saya sarankan anda membuka website milik Adik Qistina.

Sumber : http://www.qistina.org

Comel kan gambar di atas ini? Ini merupakan gambar Adik Qistina yang saya kisahkan. Untuk pengetahuan mereka yang masih belum buka website milik Adik Qistina, berikut adalah sedikit maklumat mengenai Adik comel ini :

Nama Penuh : Nuur Qistina Hayani Binti Nazrol Hafiz
Tarikh Lahir : 28 Oktober 2006
Umur : 6 bulan

Jantina : Perempuan

Berikut adalah petikan dari website tersebut :

Nur Qistina Hayani is suffering from liver cancer ( hepatoblastoma ). What can a 6 months baby knows about this disease. She is right now going through the Chemotherapy process. The costs for Chemotherapy and Surgery will takes around RM 100,000.00 ( Ringgit Malaysia One Hundred Thousands). She looks very healthy from the outside and for sure she does not understands what she is going through! We need your help to donate to us so we can help Qistina to live happily as any other childrens!

Dr. Lin Hai Peng Supporting Letter

Click picture above to enlarge

8/5/07 To Whom it may concern ...

This is to confirm that the above infant is suffering from Hepatoblastoma for which she needs

1 ) Chemotheraphy - 8 cyles and
2 ) Surgery

Adik Qistina telah disahkan menghidapai HEPATOBLASTOMA, sejenis barah hati. Bayi kecil ini memerlukan bantuan anda semua. Saya menyeru kepada rakan-rakan semua untuk membantu sedaya yang mampu agar bayi comel ini akan dapat membesar sebagaimana anak-anak yang lain.

Sekiranya kita boleh keluarkan wang untuk pelaburan-pelaburan online, offline, termasuklah skim-skim cepat kaya, atau apa saja,apa kata kita bantu Adik Qistina. Walaupun RM1, anda tetap meringankan beban keluarganya. Untuk maklumat lanjut : http://www.qistina.org .

Sesungguhnya, tangan yang memberi lebih baik dari tangan yang menerima.

Dan ingat juga! Buat baik tak perlu balasan apa-apa. Balasannya sudah sedia menanti di akhirat sana.

Salam Maju Jaya untuk semua!

p.s : Jika anda ada sebarang pertanyaan, pandangan, ulasan mahupun permasalahan, kemukakan kepada kami di e.norakmal@gmail.com . Privasi anda diutamakan.

Perubahan Untuk Semua

Assalamualaikum dan Selamat Sejahtera.

Selamat hari Selasa. Uik? Pelik bunyinya. Sepelik perasaan anda apabila anda melihat layout yang nyata berbeza, susun atur yang baru, dan tentu sekali post di dalam Bahasa Melayu.

Baiklah, setelah saya membiarkan blog ini kosong selama satu hari, kini telah tiba masa saya menjawab persoalan demi persoalan yang timbul di minda anda.

Saya sedang berubah. Berubah apa? Saya merubah 40% daripada perancangan kerja saya, yang melibatkan blog ini. Tentu ada yang tidak faham. Tidak mengapa, cukuplah saya faham kenapa saya melakukannya.

Sepanjang dua minggu lepas, saya cuba mendalami satu perasaan yang timbul di dalam hati dan fikiran saya. Itu semestinya sedikit sebanyak menganggu kerja-kerja saya. Dan secara perlahan-lahan saya menemui jawapan kepada persoalan-persoalan yang wujud dalam fikiran saya.

Masih kabur? Tidak mengapa. Kerana sesungguhnya itu sebahagian dari rahsia saya. Hehe.

Baiklah, secara ringkasnya, inilah antara sebab mengapa anda menjumpai blog ini dalam rupa baru, penulisan Bahasa Melayu dan segalanya tampak baru. Cuma penulisnya masih orang yang sama ya! :)

Sesungguhnya, kepada sesiapa juga yang mulai pada saat ini menjadi pembaca setia di blog ini, pada sesiapa juga yang membaca artikel ini, pada sesiapa juga yang selama ini setia bersama dengan saya, dan siapa jua anda di luar sana, ketahuilah bahawa pada waktu ini, saya membuat satu deklarasi ke atas perjuangan saya; bahawasanya,

1. Saya akan mula menulis di dalam Bahasa Melayu dalam usaha lebih memahami kehendak ahli masyarakat, dalam usaha memudahkan penyampaian maklumat kepada para pembaca. Saya menerima email-email yang menyatakan bahawa mereka lebih menyukai penulisan di dalam Bahasa Malaysia. Saya cuba memenuhi kehendak anda. Kerana saya telah berikrar pada diri saya untuk memperuntukkan yang terbaik kepada mereka yang memerlukan.

2. Kedua, saya sendiri mengakui bahawa saya merasai kurang puas dan kadang kala terpaksa merencatkan pengaliran idea saya gara-gara mahu menyampaikan yang termudah kepada anda semua. Diharapkan, dengan penulisan di dalam bahasa ibunda saya, saya lebih bersemangat dan idea saya semakin mudah dikongsikan.

3. Ketiganya, walaupun ini sebab ketiga, ia juga amat penting. Saya merasakan ada perlunya saya meletakkan bahasa ibunda sebagai bahasa utama di blog ini, dalam usaha saya sendiri membawa para pembaca memahami dan mengamalkan apa yang ditulis disini. Saya juga cuba menulis dengan mudah dan praktikal.

4. Keempat, ia adalah terlalu sensitif untuk dikongsikan di sini. Cukuplah saya katakan, ia berkaitan dengan apa yang saya perolehi melalui pembacaan dan perkongsian idea bersama pensyarah dan sahabat-sahabat saya. :) Kita harus berhati-hati dalam memacu kejayaan di alaf baru ini. Siapa faham, fahamlah :)

Demikian sedikit penjelasan mengenai perubahan-perubahan yang berlaku dan anda saksikan di dalam blog ini.

Akhir kata, anda jangan bimbang, jangan khuatir, yang paling penting : teruskan membaca di sini dan mula mempraktiskannya di luar sana. Sekiranya anda takut terlupa untuk kembali membaca di sini, apa kata, terus saja langgan artikel-artikel ini! Anda boleh melakukannya dengan 'subscribe' , dengan mengisi maklumat yang diperlukan di bahagian atas sebelah kanan blog ini.

Salam Maju Jaya.

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Utusan Malaysia: BicaraJutawan dipantau kerana offer skim cepat kaya?

Morning fellows! :)

Today, again no tips and tricks. Today, I paste one short post but need your attention. Copy from Pakdi site -->

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Terima kasih kepada blog yang bersama menyuarakan isu ini. Sila buat link kepada blog ini / BicaraJutawan, dan saya akan backlink anda kembali.

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BicaraJutawan telah memberi amaran tentang kehadiran skim cepat kaya baik secara offline atau pun online, jauh lebih awal dari fatwa Majlis Fatwa Kebangsaan.

Sila rujuk:

1. Kategori Pendidikan Asas Kewangan
2. Kategori Portfolio Investment

Malah kami telah mengeluarkan kenyataan rasmi yang seharusnya dibaca oleh semua pengunjung BicaraJutawan, tentang pendirian kami terhadap skim cepat kaya. Sila rujuk:

Selamat Datang ke BicaraJutawan.com

Dari Utusan Malaysia: 37 laman web skim cepat kaya dipantau

“Antara laman web yang menawarkan pelaburan mencurigakan ialah www.carigold.com, www.cakapgold.com, www.jutawan.org, www.jomklik.com, www. gurumalaysia.com, www. wangcyber.com, e-bazaar2u. com dan www.bicarajutawan.com“

Hai… bila masa pulak BicaraJutawan dan WangCyber offer pelaburan skim cepat kaya kepada pengunjung mereka?

Takpelah, biar diorang siasat dulu.

Kepada pihak yang berkenaan, saya boleh dihubungi melalui admin[at]bicarajutawan.com / 013-3403593 untuk kerjasama siasatan pihak tuan.

Sekian, Terima Kasih.

Perbincangan lain:
1. Utusan Malaysia: Bicarajutawan.com kena pantau?

2. Utusan Malaysia: Wangcyber.com mecurigakan?

p.s. oh ya, untuk mereka yang jarang surf forum BJ, ia adalah forum yang bincang pelbagai isu berkaitan pelaburan dan perniagaan. Dari topik nak menjaja di pasar malam macam mana, buat roti macam mana, tanam cendawan macam mana, bela ikan keli macam mana, nak melabur di Bursa Malaysia macam mana, nak mendaftar syarikat macam mana, nak bela kambing macam mana, pelajar IPT nak berniaga part-time macam mana dan sebagaonya. MANAKALA topik yang mempromosikan program jana wang dan skim cepat kaya tidak dibenarkan dari dulu sampailah sekarang.

Thanks for your attention :)

10 tips for setting goal - Part 5 (Final)

Salam to all of you and Happy Shining Morning!

Its already at the end of this series. All about tips/tricks that you can use in order to set your goals/aims. For those who have not read anything yet about it, you can check it out here :

10 tips for setting goal - Part 4

10 tips for setting goal - Part 3

10 tips for setting goal - Part 2

10 tips for setting goal - Part 1

So, today, I will give out the last two tips that I have, so that each of you can use it as well. Here it is,

Pray and Meditate

As you gt into bed each evening, think aboout goal before you drop off to sleep. Get a very clear colorful image in mind of seeing yourself doing to the things you'll be doing after you've reached your major goal. (Remember to include your values). And then begin to ask and demand these things through meditation and prayer.

Believe in yourself.

You have to beleive in yourself. You need this, before you can make people trust you.

You are what you think most of the time. And please, think positively.

Thats all. 10 simple tips and tricks, that you can use to set out your goals.

Have a nice day!

p.s : Kisah Mia Part 3 - Released! Check it out here

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Dik Mal from http://norakmal.blogspot.com/ ,

Shueqry from http://shueqry.blogspot.com/ and

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to be part of our community. Read more about it here

10 tips for setting goal - Part 4

Good evening to all of my readers.

Yesterday, I already wrote on another tips that you can use, in order to set your goals. YOur aims. :) Hope some of you have try it out!

As I promised, today, another two tips would inspire your day.

Focus On One Project At A Time
One of the greatest mistakes people make in setting goals is trying to many works, too many things at one time. There is tremendous power in giving laser beam focused attention to just one idea, one project or one objective at a time.

But, having rough ideas, would help you too. But, as you go through the list, try to focus on one spesific idea. Proceed and record the progress, once you satisfied, then only move on to the other idea.

Write out An 'Ideal Scenario'
Pretend that you are newspaper reporter that has just finished an interview about the outstanding success that you have achieved and the article is now in the newspaper. How would it read? What would be the headline? Write the article yourself, projecting yourself into the future as though it had already happened. Describe the activities of your daily routine now that are very successful. Dont forget the headline. ( Example : Dik Mal Wins Top Motivator Award Of The Dacade) -->my wish!

That is. Try it out. Tmmorow I will conclude about this 10 tips/tricks on setting goals.

Have a nice ady!

p.s : I have wrote something on my personal blog. And I would love to, not only hear, but also listen to your words. Check it out here : http://dikmal.wordpress.com

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Motivation : Generating your GoalsTips 100 Brian Tracy

Notice Board : I would love to invite all of you to join :

Dik Mal from http://norakmal.blogspot.com/ ,
Shueqry from http://shueqry.blogspot.com/ and
Impax from http://born2bjutawan.blogspot.com/ ,

to be part of our community. Read more about it here

10 tips for setting goal - Part 3

Assalamualaikum and Happy Shining Morning to all of my readers.

Today I would like to share another 2 tips on how you can set your goals, your aim, by today.

Here it is :

Write Down The 10 Things You Want This Year.

By making a list of the things that are important to you, you begin to create images in your mind. It's been said that your mind will actually create chaos if necessary to make images become a reality. Because of this, the list of ten thins will probably result in you achieving at least eight of them within a year.

Create your storyboard.

Get a piece of poster board and attach it to a wall in your office or home where you will see it often. As you go through magazines, brochures, etc; and you see the pictures of the things you want, cut them and glue them to your storyboard.

In other words, make yourself a catalogue of the goals that excite you....knowing full weell that as you look at them everyday, they will soon be yours.

I believe by now, after 6 tips that I have give to you, you probably have a rough image on how to set your goals. What you really want! Think of it. What you want, and how detail you able to describe what you want, make it more real.

By having a storyboard, you will see clearly what you want.

GO and try this one! Have a nice day

p.s : I am quite busy last week and this week, as I ahve already started my short semester. Wish me all the luck

p.s.s:Eventhough I am quite busy, I do enjoy to glue more and more things in my goals catalogue! And when I try to think what actually I want, I find that, wealth is not an option for everyone, but the choice of majority. Make it deep clear on what you want.

p.s.s.s: I happily invite all of you, to share whatever your problem with me at : e.norakmal@gmail.com

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Notice Board : I would love to invite all of you to join Dik Mal from http://norakmal.blogspot.com , Shueqry from http://shueqry.blogspot.com and Impax from http://born2bjutawan.blogspot.com , to be part of our community. Read more about it here

The Main Reason Why People Fail

In years, (two years back actually), and this early months in 2007, according to research, techniques, methods, by reading more books, articles, listen to more audio book and others, I can say that I am shifting the way I am thinking. And thats also the reason why I build up this blog.

Few of my friends, also go through the same process. They all show improvements in life. But, the chart stop somewhere. It undergo decreases in improvement, and slowly stop. Why? I asked myself that question long time ago. And today I ask myself again, during walking in the middle of Kuala Lumpur City Centre (KLCC).

And I sat on a bench in Kinokuniya, starring at this book that I hold. Its one of the top motivational books I can suggest, and I keep asking why. If the motivators from all over the world, have created a great principles, proven principles, have revelead the most successful methods in achieving success, then why it did not bring us a permanent, total change in our daily life?

We read books, we read blogs, we read articles, we talk to people who could inspire our own self. We become very attracted to those boombastic methods, stories. That was good. The chart goes up consistently. But slowly it decreases.

For example, every day people came here, to this blog, read more and more new inspiring articles that I could give, which lead you to positive thinking, goal setting, mind-shifting, etc; and at the end of few months, slowly they get back to the starting line! Oh!

I keep thinking and think more. I said to myself, I wont go home today, if I didnt get the answer. Because I knew the answer is right in front of me.

At last, in the evening, I came out with this solution. Read it slowly and carefully:

1. Lots of writers are in the right track. Most of them look very honest, care - they want to give the very best solution for people. Thats what I do.
2. If you follow thier advices, you probably, and I can garuantee you will succeed.
3. If you stop practising it, usually you will loose the power! Not even one single techniques will maintain your success moment, without a solid practising.
   
   

You want to know why?I tell you why.

People need motivation. Everybody need motivation. Even me myself!

But, nobody can motivate you!

'Urgh!!What does that mean?I am here for your advice, and you told me nobody could motivate me?'

Yes its true. Only you can consistantly motivate yourself. I am here as a guide. I give guides, I give advices, but you still have to consistantly, coach yourself. Train yourself and start to build up a new, solid and perfect habit!

'But how?'

I will talk about that later. Its enough if you really understand that, only you can motivate yourself the most. :)

I would love to listen to your comments, kindly mail me at e.norakmal@gmail.com . I am waiting. Dont make me wait too long :)

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Get Things Done: Take 21! [MUST READ]

Ever begin doing something that you do for a few days, and then simply stop doing it?

For example, let's say you promised yourself that you were going to file papers immediately before they got out of hand, but then something else came up, and the next thing you knew, you had another pile of papers that needed to be filed.

Or perhaps, on January 1 you made a vow to yourself to exercise for 20 minutes every day. You exercised for a few days. But then, by January 5, you gave up.

This happens to everyone on one occasion or another. But, you really can start getting things done!

Next time you really want to do something, and you want to actually start and continue doing it, realize that doing it for one, two, or even three days in a row is usually not enough.

It takes at least 21 days to form a habit. This means that you have to do something at least 21 times before it begins to become part of your everyday routine.

SO

Decide exactly what you want to do. Write it down and post it where you can see it every day, like your bathroom mirror. Be as specific as possible.

Schedule time to do what you want to do. Again, it takes 21 days to form a habit, so schedule at least 21 days on your calendar and don't let anything get in the way of your schedule. If you miss one of your scheduled days, it's best to start over and schedule another 21 days. You must be consistent and dedicated to doing what you want to do.

Once you reach your 21 days, congratulations! Don't stop now though, schedule another 21 days, and then another and so on, until you do what you want to do, without even thinking about it . . . like brushing your teeth.

by Maria Gracia - Get Organized Now! http://www.getorganizednow.com/

10 tips for setting goal - Part 1

Hello readers! I am back again. How about two post a day?

As I promised you yesterday, I will write about two more ideas to help you setting your goals.

Here it is :

The Three Most Important Things

Decide on three things that you want to achieve before you die. Then work backwards listing three things you want in the next twenty years, ten years, five years, this year, this month, this week and finally. the three most important things you want to accomplish today.

Ask Yourself Good Questions

As you think about your goals, instead of WISHING for them to come true, as kyourself HOW ad WHAT CAN YOU DO to make them came true. The subconcius mind will respond t your questions far greater than just making statements or making wishes.

Its not only your wishes. Do whatever, however you may choose to do your goal setting, please choose it. I'd like to see more successful people! And you are one of them if you start now.

6 more ideas left. But I really hope you have try the first two!

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Stress [Part 2]

Stress! Again and again. Stop it. Stop that feeling.

Live longer, live healthier by maximizing your self-talk.

What is self-talk?

In short, self-talk is the endless stream of thoughts that run through your head every-day. It can be positive or negative thoughts.

When you think negatively, you own mispreceptions, lack of information and distorted ideas have overpowered your capacity for logic and reason.

But if you weed out misconceptions and irrational thinking and challenge them with positive thinking, your self-talk will gradually become realistic and self-affirming.

Few of us, do think negatively. How does it sounds like? Some common form of irrational thiking are :

Personalizing

When something bad occurs, you automatically blame yourself. For example, you hear that an evening out with friend is canceled and you ASUME that the change in plans because no one wanted to be around you.

Polarizing

You see things only as either good or bad, or balck and white. There is no middle ground. YOu think that you have to be perfect or you are a total failure. That was not true!

GOOD NEWS!

YOu can learn to turn negative thoughts to ositive ones. The process is simple but it takes time and practice.

Start by following this simple rule :

'Dont say anything to yourself that you wouldt say to anyone else'

This is few examples how you could spin your thoughts

• Negative self-talk

1. Its too complicated
2. I dont have enough time
3. I am never going to learn how to manage my stress

• Positive Spin

1. Lets look at it from a different angle
2. Let re-evaluate some priorities
3. I am going to try to learn how to manage my stress

Practicing positive talk will improve your outlook. Whne you state of mind is generally optimistic, you are able to handle everyday stress in a realistic and construcitve way.

Nice day ahead for you and me.

Quote of the day :

'If you play it safe in life, you have decided that you dont want to grow any more' - Shirley Hufstedler -

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10 tips for setting goal - Part 1

Writing goals is the first step to make the goals more real. Somehow having things in writing really makes them seem more important to most people.

I am completely sure that all of you, already read about goal setting. Few already took thier pen and paper, trying to write down thier goals. Few also, stuck there. Dont know what to write. Just dont know what they want.

Dont give up. Do you know WHY 97% of population FAIL to achieve a thier goal?

They fail on ly for one reason : They don't know how to set goals.

Some of you might also realize this. Or maybe some of you really stuck in this trap. Dont worry anymore. I will share with you, 10 tips on how to make a move and start to write down your goals.

Early, I would love to give this 10 tips in one short article. But back then, I am completely sure, only few of you will take note regarding this. So I decide, I will write two tips each, every single day.

And here it goes :

Make a list of your values

What's is really important to you? You family? Your leisure time? Your hobbies? Decide on what your most important values in life and then make sure that the goals you set are designed to include and enhance them.

Project yourself into the future

The late, Earl Nighttingale created a whole new industry (self improvement) after 20 years study on what made people successful. The bottom-line result of his research was simply : 'We Become What We Think About'.

Whatever thoughts dominate our minds most of the time are what we become. Thats why goals setting is so critical in achieving success beacuse it keeps us focused on whats really important to us. He then said that the easiest way to reach our goals is to pretendthat we had already achieved our goals.

That is , begin to walk, talk and act as tough we are already experiencing the success wee seek. Then those things will come to us naturally through the power of the subconcius mind.

Well, there it is. Tips from me to help you understand better on how to kick start-writing you goals. Grab your pen and paper right now. Start writing!

Remember : 'You are definitely going to be what you think off most of the time'

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The Date on Your Goals

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Tips 100 Brian Tracy

p.s : I always welcome any of you to share with me anything. If you find yourself stuck somewhere. You want to write your goals but still didnt know how? Just mail me at : e.norakmal@gmail.com . Dont be shy, I cant see you! :) Thanks.

Explain you idea, goals!

So you have a goal? Great! You have an idea? That was good! Are you working on something new? Great! Can you explain it?

Do you have a bright idea which you can only dream about with clarity, visualize with the mental picture of your eye, but yet you can't seem to be able to clearly explain it to others?

Each time you try to explain your idea or goal, you can’t help but notice the looks of confusion on people’s faces, the blank stares, the raised eyebrows the widening eyes and the polite nods of those who don’t have a clue about what you are talking about!

Explaining your idea, goal or vision isn't just about articulation who you are and what you do. It is about taking the conversation deeper by expounding on the idea, goal, project or vision to interested parties.

Can you clearly articulate your idea, goals or vision?

The following 3 tips will help you verbalize that which you can only see with the mental picture of your eye.

Make it simple.
Your idea or goal does not have to be complicated to be valid. Break it down, break it down, and break it down. Avoid the use of technical jargon as much as possible. One easy way to make your explanation simple is to answer questions touching on issues of what you are doing, where you are doing it, for whom you are doing it, how you are doing it and when you began or completed the task.

Own your words.
Let your explanation resonate with your essence. Your personality or your being should not conflict with what you are saying otherwise the internal tug of war will prevent you from believing what you are saying and hinder the flow of information. The more you believe what you are saying, the more confident you will be in explaining you idea or goal.

Make it natural.
Let your explanation be natural, in your own words and in your own style. Avoid copying other people’s style and imagining that their language and expression is better than yours.
No one can explain your idea or goal better than you; therefore, be natural. Choose your audience carefully, but no matter who your audience is, articulating your idea in a natural way is always inspiring and authentic.

Article From : www.motivationzone.com

Albert Einstien

“Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited to all we now know and understand, while imagination embraces the entire world, and all there ever will be to know and understand.”

Albert Einstien

As stated above, Albert Einstien agree that, imigination is more important than knowledge.

Did you know, usually, people only used 10% of thier mind.

And did you know the common factor of thousands of successful people in this world, is the manage thier mind very well.

To read more about subconcius mind, please click on the featured book column, just next to this post. :)

Have a nice day.

Take 100% Responsibility for your life

You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change thier circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself.

JIM ROHN - America's foremost business philosopher

I am sure, very sure that all of us realize that, each of us do have our responsibility in our life. Dont you? If you dont, I hope you can read this article carefullly, and try to understand that, you are 100% responsible in your life.

If you want to be successful, you have to take 100% responsibility for everything that you experience in your life. This includes the level of your achievements, the results you produce, the quality of your relationships, your debts, everything!

This short article might help you to understand better.

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One day, one self-made multimillionaire ask one man few question. That multimillionaire was really a millionaire. And he ask this man a few simple questions.

He ask the man, if, the man took 100% responsibility for his life.

"I think so," the young man responded.

"This is a yes or no question, young man. You either do or you dont."

"Well I guess I'm not sure."

"Have you ever blamed anyone for any circumstance in your life? Have you ever complained about anything?"

"Uh..Yeah..I guess I have."

"Dont guess! Think."

"Yes, I have."

"Okay, then. That means you dont take one hundred percent responsibility, means you acknowledge that you create everything that happens to you. It means you understand that you are the cause of all of your experience. If you want to be really successful, and I know you do, then you will have to give up blamming and complaining and take total responsibility for your life. That means all your results, both your successes and your failures.."

" You see young man, if you realize that you have created your current conditions, than you can re-create them at will. Do you understand that?"

"Yes I do."

"Now ar you willing you to take 100% responsibility for your life?"

"Yes Sir, I am!"

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The young man has realize something that make him think twice. Thats what you have to do also. Think twice. If you find you have fail to construct your life, than re-construct it.

You didnt fail, nobodys fail. People only stop when they give up. So dont give up. Think positive. :)

Have a nice day.

1 May 2007 - Happy Labour Day

Happy Holiday! For those who are in Malaysia. Its Labour Day. Hope all my readers will spend thier holiday with thier own family. Family come first !:)

Well, here I am back again. After dissepearing for three days. I am back!

I am very sure, many of you might think I am not going to write anymore. Well that was not what really happen. Besudes, for this three days, I have to attend one ceremony held in Setapak, Kuala Lumpur. So I really dont have chance to write a post.

Luckly last night, I had finished up updating the new layout for this blog. As you can see, there are red, black dan white. The color hasnt change very much. But the column does.

Well, I know that my English wasnt very good. That was one of the purpose to, why I write in English. I want to improve it. I have read lot off tips on how to improve my english, and now is the time to take action :) I am trying.

So from today onwards, I will kep writing in English. For those who are interested to read on my personal blog, you can read it here. Its in Bahasa :)

See you soon!